Sunday, July 8, 2007

DESIRES AND EXPECTATIONS

No one can reach the destination if he is not desirous to reach there. The chances of success is directly proportional to the degree of desire. Although desire and expectations are closely related but expectation is a negative feature.

Its good to have large desires and small expectations. For instance, it you desire to have a large friend circle, you can make it but if you expect something from your friends, it may lead to frustration. To be happy in life one should never expect anything from life.

When is a person sad and when is he happy? Sadness is there when you get lesser than your expectations and happiness is there when you get more than your expectations. So, lesser the expectation more is cheer and satisfaction.

1 comment:

Akanksha said...

ya...this one is true..n sumthng wich v should follow...bt still i hv few objectections------
1) I m no saint...who doesn't expect fr nethng.. this thought is too idealistic 2 follow... ya v can try 2 minimise our expectaions bt nt nullify thm..
2) V hv expectations ....becoz v care fr others expectations fm us...n expect the same in return....bt unfortunately...2day's wrld is so biased n selfish... tat v lend up in getting irritaed on ourseves...